talked to a friend last night. during the talk, i realized how guys feel and think. to me, i think that guys like to think abt the past and holding on to whatever they feel even though thgs change.Seeing is believeing, but, are u going to believe another person by seeing and not by trusting? If u are a guy reading this entry, think abt it.you may or may not agree. holding on to the past brings only sorrows and not happiness. be optimistic,though difficult, its possible.the only guy i know so far who is so positive is mark. he likes to move on and forget the past. its hard,everyone knows it. but, its possible if u wan to. i'm not saying girls are perfect either. girls, like me, like sercurity and we tend to move on not thinking abt the past. it takes a long time for a girl to feel secure. but the day will come.are guys willing to wait? relationships have sorrows,hurts and quarrels. its through those both party understand each other's need more. hurts can be mended,it is only if u are willing to accept the change of the other party and move on. relationships is not all bad,it has its good times too. remember the nice times u spent giggling,laughing,talking endlessly hand in hand,walking aimlessly wth each other. are all these going to overtake the bad side of relationship? both grow through bad times, one feels hurt coz one still love the other party.not all relationship are perfect in first trial. thats when breaks n patches come in. it only take simple words and actions to mend sth-its whether u are willing to do so and change perspective towards thgs. the end
